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SHE'LL GET YOU OFF OR YOU GET
HER OFF
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SO BEAUTIFUL NOBODY WILL KNOW
Many of these shemales are so beautiful that
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I hope these tips help you
find someone nice in the
shemale personals. Since taking over as Webmistress at TS4Play.com, the site for admirers of gorgeous shemales, I have enjoyed meeting and exchanging e-mails
with many nice people. I've even met a few grrls and admirers from
the shemale personals myself!
One question has been asked
more often than any other. That question is; How do I meet Shemales?
On this page I'm going to
answer that question. I sincerely hope that something here helps
you make a special connection in the personals! could probably write a book on this
subject, but I'm going to boil it all down to some basics that will help
you make a successful connection, hopefully with someone very special.
T-Girls
are special - Femininity is a tremendous satisfaction for
t-girls and most love the attention from a gentleman admirer. Notice the
word "gentleman." When a t-girl feels that she is being treated
with the dignity and respect befitting a lady she is in heaven. Make her
feel like a lady and you're well on your way to success! Some of the men I
have spoken with tell me that nobody else can make them feel the way a
t-girl can make them feel. I think it would be a safe guess that these guys
know how to treat a t-girl like a lady. They really are special and they can
make you feel special too!
Identify what
you're looking for - Do you want a long-term relationship, short-term
relationship or a sexual encounter. In other words, how serious are you. Do
you want to meet a pre-op, post-op, transvestite, etc. Perhaps you're
interested in a sexual experience but you're open to the idea that it could
lead to a long-term relationship.
Understand
that not all t-girls are the same - It is important that you have at
least a basic understanding of the various types of t-girls. A common
mistake is to assume that all t-girls are the same. This is risky business
and your misunderstanding could cause you to miss out on an opportunity to
meet the tv/ts girl of your dreams. Some t-girls are heterosexual male
crossdressers. They simply aren't interested in men, so perhaps you
shouldn't waste your time. Others are bisexual (your chances are improving
here). Some t-girls are looking for men, others are looking for women. Some
are seeking sex changes, and others are not. Some live full-time as females,
others live part-time as females. Confused yet? You really shouldn't be.
T-girls fall somewhere within a broad spectrum. Read or listen as t-girls
describe themselves and you will gain insight into exactly where they are in
their life and where they intend to go. A dialog should be able to resolve
any remaining questions you might have. Remember that you're looking
for someone who will compliment what you're looking for and your job is to
narrow the field to those who are looking for someone just like you!
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What kind of
T-Girl do you want to meet? - One of the most awkward topics is also one
of the most important. You already know that not all t-girls are the same.
The fact is that many are actively pursuing sex change surgery and are
uncomfortable with their male genitalia. These girls are not likely to take
kindly to your desire to fondle their "extra parts." Others are
quite comfortable and are willing to explore all aspects of their sexuality.
Simple communication will answer that question and you can decide what is
important to you. I would recommend that you pose a question whenever it is
appropriate, such as, how would you expect your partner to satisfy you?
Notice that this question seeks to draw out a response and you may be
surprised at what you can learn about a person by asking these types of
questions. Obviously this wouldn't be the first question you would want to
ask, but at the right time, a probing question can provide you with a wealth
of information and insight.
Use proper
terminology - You will quickly learn that not all t-girls like being
called shemales. While some of us don't take exception to the term, it is an
error in terminology that can quickly send you packing. Indeed, many
well-intentioned admirers have struck out simply because of a misguided
attempt to be friendly. Here is a good rule to follow; Don't refer to anyone
as a shemale, transsexual, transvestite, etc. until you have asked what she
prefers to be called. A politely worded inquiry should prompt a t-girl
to let you know exactly what term she considers most appropriate. If you
must use a term, rather than a person's name, perhaps the term transgendered
is the least offensive of all the terms. This is a generic term that fits
most t-girls and is rarely offensive.
Avoid
horrible opening lines - I have frequently wondered, does anyone really
get lucky using lines like "hey, any chicks with dicks in this chat
room?" or, "I sure could use a shemale to suck my dick." Ask
yourself, is my intention to offend people, or do I really want to meet
people that will enrich my life? If you chose the latter, you will probably
want to avoid the horrible opening lines. Instead, try showing an interest
in t-girls that you see online in the personal ads, in chat rooms, on
message boards or even in person. Begin by introducing yourself briefly and
asking permission to chat, e-mail or whatever. Try exchanging
information, making small talk and getting to know the girls. By investing a
little time to get to know us, you will be able to sort through those of us
who you genuinely have an interest in.
Search the
personal ads -
Shemale
Personal Ads are one great way to meet quality people. Unlike many
people who are chatting in the chat rooms, or who post messages on bulletin
boards, the people who place shemale personals are interested in meeting others. In
fact, they are so interested that they have taken the time to place a
personal ad. I recommend that you first
search
the personal ads to see if you find someone interesting. If so, politely
respond to their ad to see if you can begin corresponding. If all goes well,
perhaps this will result in a personal meeting and romance! If you don't see
anyone that matches your criteria, try placing your own personal ad. A
recent photo in your ad is an absolute must. When used properly,
personal ads are one of the most effective and least expensive methods for
meeting quality people. I frequently hear back from people who have met
someone special in the personals and I'd love to hear your success story!
Visit the
nightclubs - You may wish to
find
a local nightclub where you can meet t grrls in person. This offers the
advantage that you will immediately know if there is an attraction. There is
also the possibility of an immediate gratification if you hit it off. There
is also a disadvantage that you must be aware of. While many of the t grrls
go to transgender friendly nightclubs to socialize in a safe environment,
there are others who are there to sell their wares. Some of the t grrls you
will meet at nightclubs are professionals and you will pay a price for their
affection. For those of you who want to check out the transgender
friendly nightclubs, there is an online listing at
http://www.411transgender.com/tv-ts-nightclubs.htm
- This can be an effective way to meet t grrls, but please let common sense
guide you and be careful!
Use online
resources - There are a number of online resources that will help you
understand and meet t-girls. Among these are chat rooms, message boards,
personal ads and directory searches. Each has their own advantages and
disadvantages. It is unlikely that you will make a romantic connection in
the chat rooms and message boards, but who knows? I still recommend that you
familiarize yourself with each of these resources. You will learn about t
grrls in the process. You'll be amazed at what you can learn if you sit
back and read the posts along with replies. For example, watch the t grrls
go ballistic when a guy enters a chat room and says, "hey, anybody want
to suck my 9 inches."
Make a
great first impression - Whether in
person or in writing, making a good first impression is critical for
success. Most of us understand the importance of being clean and presenting
ourselves in a positive manner in person to person meetings. What many of us
fail to realize is that first impressions are equally important in written
communications. When you are e-mailing, chatting online or exchanging
Instant Messages, you must rely on mere words to make a good first
impression. You will want to carefully choose your words so you don't come
off as offensive. Good grammar and spelling is important, so don't get
sloppy just because you're communicating electronically. It is also
important that you don't give the impression that you're impatient,
insincere or desperate. Practice being a good communicator, which means
expressing yourself well and being a good listener. Using good
communication skills, you will be able to learn about the t-girls
you meet and sort through them to find those that interest you the most.
Promote
yourself! - Here is a beauty of a tip that will pay off big if used
properly. If you are sincere in your desire to meet a t-girl, take a little
time and make yourself a website. It doesn't have to be elaborate, but it
should include some basic information about you. A photo is a must. A recent
photo please, 'cause you probably aren't going to impress anyone if you
publish a 15 year old photo of you and then they meet the present you.
Describe yourself honestly and state exactly what you're looking for. Tell a
little about your interests, dislikes and anything that makes you
interesting or different from all the other guys they may hear from. You
don't have to be a professional website designer. There are many programs
available online that guide you through the process of setting up a website
easily and painlessly. AOL members can set up a hometown page for free.
There are other free services. The idea here is that you can provide a
link to your personal website to anyone you meet online, whether you are
chatting in a chat room, responding to a personal ad or responding to a
message board post. This is a great way to attract people who are truly
interested in you!
Steer clear
of the bad apples - Just like other people in the real world, some t-girls
have drug or alcohol problems, nasty dispositions, etc.. A few simple
questions will reveal many of these undesirable traits. Be honest and
forthright in your communications and expect the same from others. I say it
is definitely worth spending a little time getting to know someone, rather
than rushing into a meeting that could be unpleasant, or even disastrous. Most
t-girls are good people, but there are those who should be avoided.
Play it safe!
- You must screen your t-girl friends just as you would screen any other
potential friends or lovers. Do they possess undesirable traits such as drug
addiction, alcohol abuse, criminal intent, HIV+, etc? Remember that you must
protect yourself. I don't want to preach here, but safety is a very
important consideration that cannot be overlooked just because you have a
raging hard-on! The subject of safe sex also cannot be overemphasized. While
we strongly defend a persons right to sexual freedom, we also believe in a
responsibility of all people to engage in safe sex. This means getting to
know someone before you hop in the sack, using condoms and periodic testing
for sexually transmitted diseases. Have fun, but play it safe!
Patience and
perseverance are good qualities - Be prepared to sort through a number
of t-girls before you meet the person who is just right for you. My mama
told me "you better shop around." This is pretty sound advice,
don't you think? By trying to rush into something, many good men are turned
away by the t-girls I've seen online. Have a little patience and don't give
up. Keep trying and refining your approach. If you follow these tips, I
assure you there is someone out there who can't wait to find you! Try a
search of the
shemale personals and see what you can find.
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